Wanted: Friends!

Posted Monday, July 21, 2008 4:12 PM by CumpsD

Today I'm going to tell you a little story about me. I think of myself as your typical description of a geek.

Passionate about all things technological, eager to find out how the inner details work together, a movie and music lover, and spending too much time behind a computer.

Having all those feats, over the course of twenty years, result in getting out of touch with the what interests the large part of the population.

I don't care about soccer, drinking, going out or making a complete fool out of myself. I can talk for hours about some architecture however, or about techy pranks.

But you know what? My surroundings don't have a clue what I'm talking about, usually ending up in me not bothering anymore. Same for taste of humor, I love the dry British kind, and everyone I know hates it.

This isn't some sort of self-pity post however. I'm fine with making conversation, but most of the time it's forced, and I constantly have to fight the analytical part of my mind to not interfere and kill the conversation.

That being said, I'd like to meet some other geeks from around the world to have a chat with, the international developer community.

Do you sometimes have the same feelings? Would you like to meet someone new? Talk about some random IT thing, or just about your life to a fellow geek?

Contact me! Tell me something about you, where are you from, how old are you, what do you do, some story. Please? :)

Writing all these articles is fun, but having dialogues is a lot more stimulating.

I hope to hear from you! :)

(Yeah, non-geeks can mail too, if you have some interest in IT or aren't bored by someone talking about it :))

Comments

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Monday, July 21, 2008 10:50 AM by wisecarver

Hey friend. ;-)

Let's do a Blog tag, the time is right.

Tag who you want, ask us/them to tell at least 5 things.

 Salute,

  Mark Wisecarver

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Monday, July 21, 2008 1:15 PM by rrobbins

"My surroundings don't have a clue what I'm talking about". Do you talk to your surroundings? LOL. The YouTube Community is quite effective in developing friendships among strangers. I've made lots of friends through YouTube even though I did not originally go there looking for friends. Recently I went to Philadelphia and met many of the people I interact with online.

The IT Toolbox web site is also a good place to connect with many geeks.

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Monday, July 21, 2008 1:39 PM by CumpsD

YouTube, hmm, such a spammy and hostile environment as well, everytime I look at comments I see loads of spam and insults flying around.

Marc, tag! :p I'll send a mail ;)

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Monday, July 21, 2008 1:45 PM by Nish

You could visit the local (or nearest) Microsoft User Group. You should be able to meet a bunch of like-minded (relative to you) people :-)

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Monday, July 21, 2008 1:55 PM by CumpsD

We don't really have any around here. The situation in Belgium is a bit different compared to, let's say London, or the US I guess.

And if we have any form of "computer club", it's usually at the very entry level of "how do I make a HTML page" or "how does Word work" stuff of topics. No offense to the people investing time in it, but given the fact that conversation usually follows the pace of the person knowing the least, chats at such a club wear me down more than entertain me.

I like teaching and sharing, but when you've done that for years and most of the conversations you have turn out to be some sort of user helpdesk support, you get tired of having conversations like that ;)

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Monday, July 21, 2008 8:50 PM by albertpascual

I would like to add you in my messager list!!

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008 5:12 AM by CumpsD

I've sent you a mail on your blog :)

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 5:34 AM by Mike.Borozdin

That is great that you are looking for friends. But maybe you should try to come down and interact with normal people who are not geeks ;-)?

I don't see anything wrong in going out and having a pint of good Belgium beer ;)!

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Wednesday, July 23, 2008 1:32 PM by CumpsD

Well, this is a great way to make some international contacts with people with common interests :p

# re: Wanted: Friends!

Thursday, July 24, 2008 9:48 AM by Clem

Install Linux, you will find plenty of pinguin.. geeks..