"And you wanted to blame NHibernate!?" -Ayende
With permission from Ayende, here is a great sound byte from one of the TekPub video series (which I highly recommend) on NHibernate.
Feel free to send it to people who erroneously blame NHibernate, I know I will!
*MP3 FILE DOWNLOAD: "And you wanted to blame NHibernate?!"