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Why people leave a company

Excerpts from book

First, Break All the Rules: What the World's Greatest Managers Do Diffeerntly. by Marcus Buckingham, Curt Coffma

 
     
Early this year, Arun, an old friend who is a senior software designer, got an offer from a prestigious international firm to work in its India operations developing a specialized software. He was thrilled by the offer. He had heard a lot about the CEO of this company, a charismatic man often quoted in the business press for his visionary attitude. The salary was great. The company had all the right systems in place employee-friendly human resources (HR) policies, a spanking new office, the very best technology, even a canteen that served superb food. Twice Arun was sent abroad for training. "My learning curve is the sharpest it's ever been," he said soon after he joined. "It's a real high working with such cutting edge technology." Last week, less than eight months after he joined, Arun walked out of the job. He has no other offer in hand but he said he couldn't take it anymore. Nor, apparently, could several other people in his department who have also quit recently. The CEO is distressed about the high employee turnover. He's distressed about the money he's spent in training them. He's distressed because he can't figure out what happened.

      Why did this talented employee leave despite a top salary? Arun quit for the same reason that drives many good people away.
The answer lies in one of the largest studies undertaken by the
Gallup Organization. The study surveyed over a million employees and 80,000 managers and was published in a book called First Break All The Rules.

It came up with this surprising finding: If you're losing good
people, look to their immediate supervisor. Besides salary, he, the immediate superior, is the reason people stay and thrive in an
organization. And he's the reason why they quit, taking their
knowledge, experience and contacts with them. Often, straight to the competition.

"People leave managers not companies," write the authors Marcus
Buckingham and Curt Coffman. "So much money has been thrown at the
challenge of keeping good people - in the form of better pay, better perks and better training - when, in the end, turnover is mostly a manager issue." If you have a turnover problem, look first to your managers. Are they driving people away?

Beyond a certain point, an employee's primary need has less to do
with money, and more to do with how he's treated and how valued he
feels. Much of this depends directly on the immediate manager. And yet, bad bosses seem to happen to good people everywhere. A Fortune magazine survey some years ago found that nearly 75 per cent of employees have suffered at the hands of difficult superiors. You can leave one job to find - you guessed it, another wolf in a pin-stripe suit in the next one.

Of all the workplace stressors, a bad boss is possibly the worst, directly impacting the emotional health and productivity of employees. Here are some all-too common tales from the battlefield:

Dev, an engineer, still shudders as he recalls the almost daily firings his boss subjected him to, usually in front of his subordinates. His boss emasculated him with personal, insulting remarks. In the face of such rage, Dev completely lost the courage to speak up. But when he reached home depressed, he poured himself a few drinks, and magically, became as abusive as the boss himself. Only,it would come out on his wife and children. Not only was his work life in the doldrums, his marriage began cracking up too.

Another employee Rajat recalls the Chinese torture his boss put him through after a minor disagreement. He cut him off completely. He bypassed him in any decision that needed to be taken. "He stopped sending me any papers or files," says Rajat. "It was humiliating sitting at an empty table. I knew nothing and no one told me anything." Unable to bear this corporate Siberia, he finally quit.

HR experts say that of all the abuses, employees find public humiliation the most intolerable. The first time, an employee may not leave, but a thought has been planted. The second time, that thought gets strengthened. The third time, he starts looking for another job.

When people cannot retort openly in anger, they do so by passive
aggression. By digging their heels in and slowing down. By doing only what they are told to do and no more. By omitting to give the boss crucial information. Dev says: "If you work for a jerk, you basically want to get him into trouble. You don't have your heart and soul in the job."

Different managers can stress out employees in different ways - by
being too controlling, too suspicious, too pushy, too critical, too nit-picky. But they forget that workers are not fixed assets, they are free agents.
   
When this goes on too long, an employee will quit - often over
seemingly trivial issue. It isn't the 100th blow that knocks a good man down. It's the 99 that went before. And while it's true that people leave jobs for all kinds of reasons - for better opportunities or for circumstantial reasons, many who leave would have stayed - had it not been for one man constantly telling them, as Arun's boss did: "You are dispensable. I can find dozens like you."

While it seems like there are plenty of other fish especially in
today's waters, consider for a moment the cost of losing a talented employee. There's the cost of finding a replacement. The cost of training the replacement. The cost of not having someone to do the job in the meantime. The loss of clients and contacts the person had with the industry. The loss of morale in co-workers. The loss of trade secrets this person may now share with others.

Plus, of course, the loss of the company's reputation. Every person who leaves a corporation then becomes its ambassador, for better or for worse. We all know of large IT companies that people would love to join and large television companies few want to go near. In both cases,  former employees have left to tell their tales.

"Any company trying to compete must figure out a way to engage the mind of every employee," Jack Welch of GE once said. Much of a company's value lies "between the ears of its employees". If it's bleeding talent, it's bleeding value. Unfortunately, many senior executives busy travelling the world, signing new deals and developing a vision for the company, have little idea of what may be going on at home. That deep within an organization that otherwise does all the right things, one man could be driving its best people away.

Comments

Aidas said:

really good post. thanx :)
# July 13, 2004 8:29 AM

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# July 13, 2004 9:02 AM

matthew said:

Nice excerpt. However, it would be polite if you would get the title of the book right, and perhaps include a link to buy it

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0684852861/102-0416214-2258559?v=glance

First, Break All the Rules: What the World's Greatest Managers Do Differently
by Marcus Buckingham, Curt Coffman

I am not sure that such a long excerpt amounts to fair use, but I don't think the authors would mind if you would at least properly name the book and credit the authors.
# July 13, 2004 9:32 AM

Sonu Kapoor said:

nice explaination!
# July 13, 2004 10:00 AM

Paul Wilson said:

Or the first "real" manager with power in my experience, since the immediate manager often has no real authority.
# July 13, 2004 11:14 AM

Sriram said:

Matthew,

you are right. I should have put the title right and given the link. I modified the content
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# July 14, 2004 4:07 PM

Paul L said:

Wow. This blog post particularly resonates with me given my current client manager. I work for a consulting company, and every so often I'll come across someone just like the person described in this post who is unknowingly and certainly unintentionally destroying my morale and the morale of fellow developers/consultants on my team. I can only hope that given enough time the project will either succeed or fail (despite our team's best intentions, of course) so I can move on to other projects under different management (not always greener mind you, but at least a change of pace for the time being to keep me going).
# July 14, 2004 8:16 PM

Bernard Farrell said:

I finished reading the 24-Carrot Manager some time ago. While it's aimed at managers, I think some of the ideas are also very useful for dealing with peers.
See:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1586851543
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I have a question to ask the readers of this post, the following:

If Mr.Jack is happy with the salary - the first important metric this post mentions as a measure of the level of happiness an employee gets.

....and Mr.Jack is content with his immediate boss' treatment towards him i.e. he never feels like he's indispensable.

Then, if Mr.Jack feels that he might be overstaying with a company, and feels like wanting a change....what could be the reason?

Is he in the wrong industry? He's a great performer though? Or does he simply like change?

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I left my previous position earning more than 6 figures for a position than earned 40% less. Why? Several reasons:

1. My company failed to acknowledge employees and was more disorganized than they should have been for a company their size.

2. Interacting with my peers was less than ideal; in some ways it was a poisonous environment.

3. I was bored with the work.

2. and 3. were the primary reason for my leaving, but 1. didn't help either, and it was felt in all lines down the chain; I had gone through 3 immediate and 4 indirect managers due to bureaucracy and attempts at reorganization which ultimately yielded less than efficient results.

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