I am not sure who made this but it is worth to read it.

       The Winner is always part of the answer;
        the Loser is always part of the problem.

        The Winner always has a program;
        the Loser always has an excuse.

        The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
        the Loser says, "That's not my job."

        The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
        the Loser sees a problem for every answer.

        The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";  the
        Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

        •When a Winner makes a mistake, •he says, " I was wrong";
        when a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."   
 •A Winner makes commitments;
        a Loser makes promises.

        Winners have dreams;
        losers have schemes.

        Winners say, "I must do something";
        losers say, "Something must be done."

        Winners are a part of the team;
        losers are apart from the team.

        Winners see the gain;
        losers see pain.

        Winners see possibilities;
        losers see problems.

        Winners believe in win/win;
        losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

       •Winners see the potential;
        losers see the past.

        Winners are like a thermostat;
        losers are like thermometers.
        •Winners choose what they say;
        losers say what they choose.

        Winners use hard arguments, but soft words;
        losers use soft arguments, but hard words;

        Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
        losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

        Winners follow the philosophy of empathy:
        "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you";
        • losers follow the philosophy,
        "Do it to others before they do it to you."

        • Winners make it happen;
        losers let it happen.

Thanks ,Suresh Behera