Jim and Michele McCarthy wrote a book called Software For Your Head. If you don't know about SFYH yet, you will. It's one of the more important messages to be published on achieving personal and team success. What I like about it versus traditional personal or team-development, is that the Core assumes nothing, judges nothing, and simply provides elegant, undecorated protocols for communication, resolution, and self-alignment. There's nothing evangelical, half-hearted, self-indulgent, or tacked-on about it. This is about clarity of action and how to get there in plain terms.